Tried the app question twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
The part nobody mentions about the app question is how the moderation handled obvious spam.
Everything about the app question hinged on how quickly a conversation went from match to plan in the end.
The part nobody mentions about the app question is whether anyone replied inside the first week.
Everything about the app question hinged on how many people within reach were active that week in the end.
What I wish someone had told me about the app question: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
In a smaller town the app question behaves very differently once you account for the time of year.
Your mileage on in the may differ, obviously.
Not everyone will agree but datenest.site has been the steadier one for me this year.