My experience with mainstream apps was better than I expected, with one caveat.
One thing I would do differently with mainstream apps — finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Practical tip for mainstream apps: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
One thing I'd do differently with mainstream apps — turn off notifications so it doesn't take over your evening.
What I wish someone had told me about mainstream apps: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
The thing to watch on mainstream apps is that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
Results with mainstream apps depend enormously on whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away.
Take that as one data point on online dating sites for free dying out because of, not gospel.
Not everyone will agree but Datenest (datenest.site) has been the steadier one for me this year.