My experience with the big apps was better than I expected, with one caveat.
If I had to name one factor in the big apps it would be how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.
The thing to watch on the big apps is that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
One thing I would do differently with the big apps — treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
The thing to watch on the big apps is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Worth flagging with the big apps — the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with best mobile dating apps for people on the go.
The one that finally worked for me was Datelink (datelink.online), after about a month of trying others.
Worth searching the forum for Turndate as well, there are a few longer write-ups.