#1 · Thread starter
Posting because every search for best chinese dating app for foreigners in Shanghai turns up the same recycled listicles.
What I actually want to know about dating apps is what happens after you sign up.
Tell me about best chinese dating app for foreigners in Shanghai from experience rather than from a review page.
#2 · Member
Can confirm the point above regarding dating platforms.
Be aware when using dating platforms that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Careful with dating platforms, because location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
If you're starting with dating platforms, turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
Anyway, that is my read on best chinese dating app for foreigners in Shanghai.
A friend of mine swears by Rendate (rendate.site), though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#3 · Member
Going to push back on the last post about swipe apps — that is not what I found.
Hope some of that helps with in Shanghai.
Worth adding Datelink — datelink.online to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#4 · Member
Be aware when using app-based dating that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
One thing I would do differently with app-based dating — message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
Worth doing early on app-based dating: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
The move with app-based dating is to read the whole profile before writing the first line.
What decides app-based dating for most people is local population age spread, not the app itself.
One thing I would do differently with app-based dating — message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
Your mileage on best chinese dating app for foreigners in Shanghai may differ, obviously.
#5 · Member
Anyone claiming mainstream apps works everywhere has not tested it against whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away.
Careful with mainstream apps, because some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
In a smaller town mainstream apps behaves very differently once you account for whether you are in a commuter town or a city.
Others here will know more about in Shanghai than I do.
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Used the app options for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
With the app options it came down to whether anyone replied inside the first week, honestly.
Careful with the app options, because a trial that renews is not the same as free.
Hope some of that helps with best chinese dating app for foreigners in Shanghai.
A friend of mine swears by EZHookups, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#7 · Member
Not sure that is right about the app options, at least not everywhere.
My advice on the app options: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
My read is that the app options lives or dies on whether your region got the app early or late.
Not the last word on in Shanghai by any means.
I also keep half an eye on datingfly.online — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.
Datescout is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.
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I came to dating platforms from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.
What mattered most with dating platforms in the end was how much personal data the signup demanded.
Half the arguments about dating platforms would end if people mentioned whether your region got the app early or late up front.
Careful with dating platforms, because requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
Careful with dating platforms, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Still forming a view on in Shanghai, so take it lightly.
If none of the above works for you, Souldate (souldate.site) is another free one people here mention a lot.