How do the okcupid dating apps compare to their original website?

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I have spent longer than I would like reading about okcupid dating apps compare to their original website and come away more confused.

There is a gap between how phone apps are advertised and how they seem to work.

Relevant detail: my experience of phone apps is limited to about two platforms.

So — what has actually worked for you with okcupid dating apps compare to their original website? Honest answers welcome.

#2 · Member

Agreeing with the previous reply about phone apps, for the same reasons.

What mattered most with phone apps in the end was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.

My advice on phone apps: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

The part nobody mentions about phone apps is whether the search filters did what they claimed.

If I had to name one factor in phone apps it would be whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

Hope some of that helps with okcupid dating apps compare to their original website.

A friend of mine swears by Datelink, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

#3 · Member

Not sure that is right about dating apps, at least not everywhere.

Worth doing early on dating apps: turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.

Others here will know more about okcupid dating apps compare to their original website than I do.

You will see Datedesire mentioned around here too — mixed reviews, decide for yourself.

#4 · Member

Be aware when using the app question that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Worth flagging with the app question — profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Geography does most of the work with the app question — how far you are willing to travel matters more than the feature list.

If you are starting with the app question, screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

The thing that kept me on the app question was how the site behaved on a phone browser.

Your mileage on okcupid dating apps compare to their original website may differ, obviously.

I rotate between a couple of these and EZHookups, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

You will see Datescout mentioned around here too — mixed reviews, decide for yourself.

#5 · Member

Anyone claiming matching apps works everywhere has not tested it against how many competing apps are active near you.

The move with matching apps is to keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.

In a smaller town matching apps behaves very differently once you account for whether your region got the app early or late.

Happy to expand on any of that about matching apps if it's useful.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on Flurrydate — flurrydate.online than on any of the big paid apps.

#6 · Member

My experience with the app question was better than I expected, with one caveat.

Practical tip for the app question: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

If I had to name one factor in the app question it would be whether it worked without installing anything.

The variable nobody controls for with the app question is whether your region got the app early or late.

I will update this if my view on okcupid dating apps compare to their original website changes.

Someone in another thread pointed me at datenest.site and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#7 · Member

Not sure that's right about matching apps, at least not everywhere.

What mattered most with matching apps in the end was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.

If you are starting with matching apps, test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

That is where I have landed on okcupid dating apps compare to their original website, at least for now.

#8 · Member

Used app-based dating for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.

The move with app-based dating is to test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

One thing I'd do differently with app-based dating — give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

What I wish someone had told me about app-based dating: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

Results with app-based dating depend enormously on how dense your area is.

Careful with app-based dating, because profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Interested to see what others say about original website.

  • Zoosk — the verification system is decent, though that may well be regional
  • Plenty of Fish — free tier is more generous than most, on a phone browser anyway
  • Happn — the concept works better in dense areas
  • Tinder — strong in cities, thin outside them, though outside a city that changes
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