Is there a dating app for plus size women that isn't full of fetishists?

Started by Aaron Stone 21 May 2026 8 replies Category Dating Apps online hookups adult dating adult chat
#1 · Thread starter

Hoping someone here has real experience with dating app for plus size women that isn't full rather than a marketing page.

There is a gap between how the app question are advertised and how they seem to work.

I'm not looking to spend money, so free tiers of the app question only for now.

What is the honest verdict on dating app for plus size women that isn't full?

#2 · Member

Can confirm the point above regarding app-based dating.

Worth flagging with app-based dating — profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

With app-based dating it came down to whether the search filters did what they claimed, honestly.

What changed my mind on app-based dating was how the site behaved on a phone browser.

I would not generalise about app-based dating without knowing how dense your area is first.

Others here will know more about dating app for plus size women that isn't full than I do.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on EZHookups (ezhookups.online) than on any of the big paid apps.

#3 · Member

Respectfully disagree on matching apps — my experience with matching apps ran the other way.

Everything about matching apps hinged on whether the free tier let you see who liked you in the end.

That is where I have landed on isn't full, at least for now.

Datescout is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.

#4 · Member

Be aware when using the big apps that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

One warning about the big apps: a trial that renews is not the same as free.

One thing I would do differently with the big apps — check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.

I'd not generalise about the big apps without knowing whether your region got the app early or late first.

One warning about the big apps: anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.

What mattered most with the big apps in the end was how much personal data the signup demanded.

That is roughly where I sit on isn't full today.

The one that finally worked for me was Flurrydate — flurrydate.online, after about a month of trying others.

#5 · Member

Two people can have opposite experiences of the app options purely because of the day of the week you actually use it.

If you are starting with the app options, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

Results with the app options depend enormously on the day of the week you actually use it.

Careful with the app options, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

Ask if you want detail on any part of isn't full.

#6 · Member

I have used dating apps on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.

Be aware when using dating apps that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

The real differentiator across dating apps turned out to be whether the radius setting actually worked.

Results with dating apps depend enormously on whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away.

That is where I have landed on dating app for plus size women that isn't full, at least for now.

If none of the above works for you, flamedate.online is another free one people here mention a lot.

#7 · Member

I would question that on the app question, because it depends heavily on where you are.

Before you commit to the app question, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

The thing to watch on the app question is that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

That is where I have landed on isn't full, at least for now.

Adding Rendate — rendate.site for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

#8 · Member

My run with mainstream apps lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.

My advice on mainstream apps: turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.

The part nobody mentions about mainstream apps is how many people within reach were active that week.

One thing I would do differently with mainstream apps — read the whole profile before writing the first line.

One warning about mainstream apps: location spoofing means 'nearby' isn't always nearby.

Ask if you want detail on any part of dating app for plus size women that isn't full.

Counterpoint: I found datenest.site slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.

#9 · Member

I gave phone apps a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.

Everything about phone apps hinged on how the platform handled blocking and reporting in the end.

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