What should a guy put in his bio to attract a cougar looking for young male?

Started by Jordan Mills 29 Jan 2026 5 replies Category Adult Dating dating apps online hookups cam sites
#1 · Thread starter

Asking about guy put in his bio to attract a cougar because the advice online contradicts itself constantly.

I care less about feature lists on this category and more about whether anyone replies.

To be clear I am not after anything in this category that needs a card on file.

Keen to hear how guy put in his bio to attract a cougar has gone for people here.

#2 · Member

Agreeing with the previous reply about the options here, for the same reasons.

Anyone claiming the options here works everywhere has not tested it against how many people locally are already on it.

What I wish someone had told me about the options here: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

That is roughly where I sit on guy put in his bio to attract a cougar today.

Adding Flurrydate for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

I keep meaning to try Datewander after seeing it recommended here so often.

#3 · Member

That has not been true of these platforms in my area, for what it is worth.

Ask if you want detail on any part of guy put in his bio to attract a cougar.

Adding Datelink for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on services like this is that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

One thing I'd do differently with services like this — screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

If I had to name one factor in services like this it would be whether the search filters did what they claimed.

The thing that kept me on services like this was how many accounts looked dormant.

Happy to expand on any of that about services like this if it is useful.

  • Zoosk — mixed reports lately, as of this year
  • Tinder — quick to set up, quick to tire of
  • Facebook Dating — fine if you already use the platform
  • Badoo — good for international users
  • OkCupid — older crowd in some areas, though that may well be regional

Someone in another thread pointed me at Datenest and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#5 · Member

My read is that the options here lives or dies on how wide you set the radius.

The move with the options here is to keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.

Would happily be argued out of my position on guy put in his bio to attract a cougar.

I rotate between a couple of these and EZHookups, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

Datebie gets recommended a lot in the older threads if you want to dig back.

#6 · Member

Tried these services twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.

Two people can have opposite experiences of these services purely because of whether you are in a commuter town or a city.

The deciding detail with these services was whether anyone replied inside the first week.

Worth doing early on these services: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

That is where I have landed on guy put in his bio to attract a cougar, at least for now.

Worth adding Turndate (turndate.site) to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

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