Used smaller communities for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
One thing I'd do differently with smaller communities — set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
My advice on smaller communities: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
Before you commit to smaller communities, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Worth flagging with smaller communities — some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Geography does most of the work with smaller communities — the time of year matters more than the feature list.
If I had to name one factor in smaller communities it would be how the site behaved on a phone browser.
Not the last word on and moderated by any means.
Someone in another thread pointed me at datelink.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
A few people swear by Souldate, and a few others really do not.