Been using the cam-site question steadily since the spring and it has been fine.
Judging the cam-site question without knowing whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away is close to meaningless.
The thing that kept me on the cam-site question was whether profiles felt written by real people.
Worth doing early on the cam-site question: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Worth doing early on the cam-site question: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Still forming a view on setup look, so take it lightly.
Counterpoint: I found Datebie slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
Souldate has its supporters on this forum, though I am not one of them yet.