My experience with the cam side of things was better than I expected, with one caveat.
Before you commit to the cam side of things, screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
One warning about the cam side of things: location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
The move with the cam side of things is to assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.
The thing that kept me on the cam side of things was how the site behaved on a phone browser.
One thing I would do differently with the cam side of things — keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
The real differentiator across the cam side of things turned out to be how the site behaved on a phone browser.
Interested to see what others say about best angle to position a gay video cam for.
Not everyone will agree but DatingFly (datingfly.online) has been the steadier one for me this year.