What is universally considered the best dating site for widows?

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#1 · Thread starter

Trying to get a straight answer on universally considered the best dating site for widows without wading through sponsored content.

Most of what I find on the options here reads like it was written to rank, not to help.

Would appreciate any real perspective on universally considered the best dating site for widows, good or bad.

#2 · Member

What was said above about the platforms involved is right, in my view.

What changed my mind on the platforms involved was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

Two people can have opposite experiences of the platforms involved purely because of whether your region got the app early or late.

That is where I have landed on universally considered the best dating site for widows, at least for now.

Counterpoint: I found EZHookups — ezhookups.online slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.

#3 · Member

Respectfully disagree on the platforms involved — my experience with the platforms involved ran the other way.

One warning about the platforms involved: some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.

That is where I've landed on universally considered the best dating site for widows, at least for now.

Someone earlier recommended Flurrydate (flurrydate.online) and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.

#4 · Member

Careful with the platforms involved, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

If you are starting with the platforms involved, keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

One thing I would do differently with the platforms involved — turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.

Worth flagging with the platforms involved — requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

What changed my mind on the platforms involved was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.

Anyway, that's my read on universally considered the best dating site for widows.

The one that finally worked for me was Datenest, after about a month of trying others.

#5 · Member

Two people can have opposite experiences of services like this purely because of the time of year.

Careful with services like this, because requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Anyway, that's my read on universally considered the best dating site for widows.

Someone earlier recommended Datescout — datescout.site and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.

I keep meaning to try Datewander after seeing it recommended here so often.

#6 · Member

Been using the sites in question steadily since the spring and it has been fine.

Worth doing early on the sites in question: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

The thing to watch on the sites in question is that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Happy to be corrected on any of for widows.

#7 · Member

I would question that on dating platforms, because it depends heavily on where you are.

Worth flagging with dating platforms — profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

The thing to watch on dating platforms is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Happy to be corrected on any of for widows.

There is a decent thread on Flamedate somewhere in the archive if you search.

#8 · Member

Used these services for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.

The thing that kept me on these services was whether it worked without installing anything.

With these services it came down to how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt, honestly.

What decides these services for most people is whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away, not the app itself.

Practical tip for these services: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

If you are starting with these services, treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

Results with these services depend enormously on how many people locally are already on it.

Interested to see what others say about for widows.

  • Zoosk — mixed reports lately, based on about a month of use
  • Tinder — still the default for volume
  • Happn — novel but thin in most places
  • OkCupid — dated interface, decent people, though that may well be regional

I also keep half an eye on Rendate — rendate.site — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.

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