Has anyone had success with farmersonly in rural areas?

Started by MonicaJ 12 Aug 2025 9 replies Category Adult Dating adult dating dating apps online hookups
#1 · Thread starter

Been going back and forth on had success with farmersonly in rural areas for a while and I still cannot land on an answer.

There is a gap between how this kind of service are advertised and how they seem to work.

Relevant detail: my experience of this kind of service is limited to about two platforms.

What is the honest verdict on had success with farmersonly in rural areas?

#2 · Member

What was said above about the platforms involved is right, in my view.

With the platforms involved it came down to whether the photos looked recent or recycled, honestly.

The thing to watch on the platforms involved is that some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.

I will update this if my view on rural areas changes.

I rotate between a couple of these and flamedate.online, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

#3 · Member

I had the opposite result with this category, so I would take that with some salt.

If you're starting with this category, assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

Happy to be corrected on any of rural areas.

Someone in another thread pointed me at Flurrydate — flurrydate.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#4 · Member

Careful with dating platforms, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

The move with dating platforms is to set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

If I had to name one factor in dating platforms it would be how many people within reach were active that week.

The move with dating platforms is to set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

If you are starting with dating platforms, avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

Anyway, that is my read on rural areas.

Luvdate comes up in most threads like this one, for whatever that is worth.

#5 · Member

Half the arguments about services like this would end if people mentioned how many competing apps are active near you up front.

Practical tip for services like this: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.

The real differentiator across services like this turned out to be how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.

My read is that services like this lives or dies on your age bracket relative to the local pool.

That is roughly where I sit on had success with farmersonly in rural areas today.

Worth adding Datenest to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

#6 · Member

I still use this kind of service occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.

Two people can have opposite experiences of this kind of service purely because of local population age spread.

The thing to watch on this kind of service is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Your mileage on had success with farmersonly in rural areas may differ, obviously.

#7 · Member

Different view here on the options here — it worked better than the post above suggests.

One warning about the options here: some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.

Everything about the options here hinged on whether the photos looked recent or recycled in the end.

Happy to expand on any of that about the options here if it is useful.

#8 · Member

I still use the sites in question occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.

The part nobody mentions about the sites in question is whether anyone replied inside the first week.

What decides the sites in question for most people is how many competing apps are active near you, not the app itself.

Whether the sites in question works comes down to how wide you set the radius more than anything the marketing mentions.

What mattered most with the sites in question in the end was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.

With the sites in question the thing that decided it for me was whether the radius setting actually worked.

One warning about the sites in question: moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

That covers what I know about the sites in question, at least.

#9 · Member

Used services like this for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.

The real differentiator across services like this turned out to be how many people within reach were active that week.

Practical tip for services like this: read the whole profile before writing the first line.

Hope some of that helps with rural areas.

#10 · Member

What was said above about these services is right, in my view.

Anyone claiming these services works everywhere has not tested it against how many competing apps are active near you.

With these services the thing that decided it for me was whether the match volume held up past the first week.

Two people can have opposite experiences of these services purely because of how many competing apps are active near you.

Everything about these services hinged on whether profiles felt written by real people in the end.

Hope some of that helps with had success with farmersonly in rural areas.

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