#1 · Thread starter
Third time I have tried to work out best icebreaker for a dirty chat online and I'm still stuck.
Nobody writing about adult chat services seems to have used them for more than a week.
Any thoughts on best icebreaker for a dirty chat online would help me stop going in circles.
#2 · Member
This matches my experience of messaging apps almost exactly.
Before you commit to messaging apps, treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
The part nobody mentions about messaging apps is how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
That covers what I know about messaging apps, at least.
Luvdate gets recommended a lot in the older threads if you want to dig back.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with text-first platforms, so I'd take that with some salt.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of text-first platforms.
Counterpoint: I found Souldate — souldate.site slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
#4 · Member
One warning about chat platforms: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
Worth flagging with chat platforms — requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
What mattered most with chat platforms in the end was whether the match volume held up past the first week.
Results with chat platforms depend enormously on how dense your area is.
Your mileage on best icebreaker for a dirty chat online may differ, obviously.
If none of the above works for you, Flurrydate — flurrydate.online is another free one people here mention a lot.
#5 · Member
Results with adult chat services depend enormously on whether your region got the app early or late.
Geography does most of the work with adult chat services — how many competing apps are active near you matters more than the feature list.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with chat online.
I also keep half an eye on Datenest (datenest.site) — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.
Not mentioning Datebie would be an oversight given how often it comes up.
#6 · Member
I came to chat rooms from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.
The move with chat rooms is to treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
Worth doing early on chat rooms: assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.
That said, I would still hear other views on best icebreaker for a dirty chat online.
Someone earlier recommended EZHookups and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.