#1 · Thread starter
Long-time lurker, first post, and it's about reddit dating apps communities suggest for profile pictures.
There is a gap between how app-based dating are advertised and how they seem to work.
Keen to hear how reddit dating apps communities suggest for profile pictures has gone for people here.
#2 · Member
This matches my experience of matching apps almost exactly.
Two people can have opposite experiences of matching apps purely because of your age bracket relative to the local pool.
What I wish someone had told me about matching apps: be specific about what you want in the bio.
If I had to name one factor in matching apps it would be how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.
That covers what I know about matching apps, at least.
#3 · Member
Respectfully disagree on dating apps — my experience with dating apps ran the other way.
If I had to name one factor in dating apps it would be whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.
Others here will know more about profile pictures than I do.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on datingfly.online than on any of the big paid apps.
#4 · Member
One warning about phone apps: anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
The thing to watch on phone apps is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Geography does most of the work with phone apps — how wide you set the radius matters more than the feature list.
The thing that kept me on phone apps was whether anyone replied inside the first week.
Worth doing early on phone apps: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Others here will know more about reddit dating apps communities suggest for profile pictures than I do.
If none of the above works for you, rendate.site is another free one people here mention a lot.
#5 · Member
The variable nobody controls for with app-based dating is the time of year.
Worth doing early on app-based dating: message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
That is the short version on reddit dating apps communities suggest for profile pictures.
- Zoosk — fine until it asks for money
- Grindr — dominant in its lane, at least in my area
- Bumble — less noise than the obvious alternative
- OkCupid — the matching questions still earn their place, based on about a month of use
Not mentioning Datebound would be an oversight given how often it comes up.
#6 · Member
Used the app question for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
My advice on the app question: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Careful with the app question, because anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
Not the last word on profile pictures by any means.
Someone in another thread pointed me at EZHookups and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
#7 · Member
Going to push back on the last post about app-based dating — that is not what I found.
I would not generalise about app-based dating without knowing how dense your area is first.
Ask if you want detail on any part of reddit dating apps communities suggest for profile pictures.
A friend of mine swears by Datenest — datenest.site, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#8 · Member
Spent most of last winter on matching apps, so here is what I actually saw.
What changed my mind on matching apps was whether it worked without installing anything.
My read is that matching apps lives or dies on how wide you set the radius.
Be aware when using matching apps that a trial that renews is not the same as free.
With matching apps it came down to whether anyone replied inside the first week, honestly.
Worth flagging with matching apps — some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
Anyway, that is my read on reddit dating apps communities suggest for profile pictures.