Tried mainstream apps twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
The move with mainstream apps is to read the whole profile before writing the first line.
Careful with mainstream apps, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Be aware when using mainstream apps that location spoofing means 'nearby' isn't always nearby.
Half the arguments about mainstream apps would end if people mentioned how wide you set the radius up front.
Careful with mainstream apps, because requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
What changed my mind on mainstream apps was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.
Not the last word on free cougar dating easier on specific apps by any means.
- Bumble — better signal-to-noise than most, at least in my area
- Coffee Meets Bagel — quiet by design, on a phone browser anyway
- Plenty of Fish — free tier is more generous than most, on a phone browser anyway
- Badoo — big in Europe and Latin America