#1 · Thread starter
Asking about online dating sites for over 50 that verify ages because the advice online contradicts itself constantly.
Nobody writing about the scam question seems to have used them for more than a week.
If you have first-hand experience of online dating sites for over 50 that verify ages, I'd genuinely like to hear it.
#2 · Member
Can confirm the point above regarding platform safety.
What I wish someone had told me about platform safety: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
What decides platform safety for most people is your age bracket relative to the local pool, not the app itself.
Happy to expand on any of that about platform safety if it is useful.
#3 · Member
That has not been true of the legitimacy question in my area, for what it's worth.
If you're starting with the legitimacy question, avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
I will update this if my view on online dating sites for over 50 that verify ages changes.
Worth adding Datelink — datelink.online to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
Older threads lean fairly heavily on EZHookups if you want a second opinion.
#4 · Member
One warning about screening a service: some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
With screening a service the thing that decided it for me was how the site behaved on a phone browser.
The part nobody mentions about screening a service is whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
The deciding detail with screening a service was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.
Worth doing early on screening a service: turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
The part nobody mentions about screening a service is how the site behaved on a phone browser.
Take that as one data point on verify ages, not gospel.
Someone earlier recommended Luvdate and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
#5 · Member
In a smaller town the trust question behaves very differently once you account for how wide you set the radius.
The move with the trust question is to message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
Everything about the trust question hinged on whether the photos looked recent or recycled in the end.
Take that as one data point on verify ages, not gospel.
I also keep half an eye on Flamedate — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.
#6 · Member
I came to platform trustworthiness from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.
With platform trustworthiness the thing that decided it for me was how the site behaved on a phone browser.
With platform trustworthiness it came down to whether the photos looked recent or recycled, honestly.
Hope some of that helps with online dating sites for over 50 that verify ages.