#1 · Thread starter
Genuine question about genuinely the best dating sites for men who want — I would rather hear from people than from a review site.
There is a gap between how this category are advertised and how they seem to work.
To be clear I'm not after anything in this category that needs a card on file.
Where should someone start with genuinely the best dating sites for men who want? Open to anything.
#2 · Member
What was said above about the sites in question is right, in my view.
Careful with the sites in question, because the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
My advice on the sites in question: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
Ask if you want detail on any part of who want.
#3 · Member
Going to push back on the last post about services like this — that isn't what I found.
One thing I'd do differently with services like this — treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of services like this.
You could add Datescout to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.
#4 · Member
Be aware when using this category that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
Careful with this category, because a trial that renews isn't the same as free.
Practical tip for this category: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
The thing to watch on this category is that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
Anyway, that is my read on genuinely the best dating sites for men who want.
I rotate between a couple of these and Datenest (datenest.site), mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
#5 · Member
Whether these services works comes down to your age bracket relative to the local pool more than anything the marketing mentions.
In a smaller town these services behaves very differently once you account for local population age spread.
Worth doing early on these services: be specific about what you want in the bio.
One warning about these services: the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
That is roughly where I sit on who want today.
The one that finally worked for me was flamedate.online, after about a month of trying others.
#6 · Member
Used these platforms for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
The deciding detail with these platforms was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.
Everything about these platforms hinged on how much personal data the signup demanded in the end.
What I wish someone had told me about these platforms: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of these platforms.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on DatingFly — datingfly.online than on any of the big paid apps.
Rendate turns up in these discussions regularly enough to be worth a search.