#1 · Thread starter
Crowdsourcing this one: most popular gay dating apps online is something I keep circling back to.
The reviews I have read on the app question are either three years old or obviously paid.
For context I am not in a major metro, which I suspect changes the answer on the app question.
If you have first-hand experience of most popular gay dating apps online, I would genuinely like to hear it.
#2 · Member
Seconding the post above on dating platforms — that lines up with what I saw.
In a smaller town dating platforms behaves very differently once you account for how far you are willing to travel.
If you're starting with dating platforms, check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
If I had to name one factor in dating platforms it would be whether anyone replied inside the first week.
That is the short version on apps online.
#3 · Member
Respectfully disagree on dating platforms — my experience with dating platforms ran the other way.
The part nobody mentions about dating platforms is how the moderation handled obvious spam.
I will update this if my view on most popular gay dating apps online changes.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on Datelink (datelink.online) than on any of the big paid apps.
Flurrydate is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.
#4 · Member
The thing to watch on dating platforms is that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
Be aware when using dating platforms that some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
The thing that kept me on dating platforms was whether the match volume held up past the first week.
Judging dating platforms without knowing how dense your area is is close to meaningless.
Would happily be argued out of my position on most popular gay dating apps online.
- Feeld — narrow but genuinely active, your mileage may vary
- Badoo — much larger abroad than at home, though that may well be regional
- OkCupid — strong for anyone with specific criteria
I rotate between a couple of these and Souldate (souldate.site), mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
#5 · Member
My read is that the app options lives or dies on whether you are in a commuter town or a city.
Practical tip for the app options: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Careful with the app options, because moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
Ask if you want detail on any part of apps online.
#6 · Member
Tried matching apps twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
The part nobody mentions about matching apps is whether profiles felt written by real people.
The move with matching apps is to read the whole profile before writing the first line.
What changed my mind on matching apps was whether the search filters did what they claimed.
Anyway, that is my read on most popular gay dating apps online.
Worth adding Rendate to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
A few people swear by Datebie, and a few others really do not.