#1 · Thread starter
Hoping someone here has real experience with meetic dating app widely used outside of Europe rather than a marketing page.
The marketing around the app options tells you nothing useful about day-to-day use.
I am not looking to spend money, so free tiers of the app options only for now.
Would appreciate any real perspective on meetic dating app widely used outside of Europe, good or bad.
#2 · Member
What was said above about phone apps is right, in my view.
My advice on phone apps: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
What I wish someone had told me about phone apps: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
That is the short version on of Europe.
Adding Datenest — datenest.site for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
#3 · Member
Not sure that is right about matching apps, at least not everywhere.
Two people can have opposite experiences of matching apps purely because of whether your region got the app early or late.
Would happily be argued out of my position on of Europe.
A friend of mine swears by Flurrydate, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#4 · Member
Careful with app-based dating, because some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
The real differentiator across app-based dating turned out to be whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
Half the arguments about app-based dating would end if people mentioned local population age spread up front.
One thing I'd do differently with app-based dating — read the whole profile before writing the first line.
Be aware when using app-based dating that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
That is the short version on of Europe.
#5 · Member
Results with mainstream apps depend enormously on how many people locally are already on it.
The real differentiator across mainstream apps turned out to be how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
One warning about mainstream apps: some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Still forming a view on meetic dating app widely used outside of Europe, so take it lightly.
I rotate between a couple of these and EZHookups (ezhookups.online), mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
#6 · Member
I gave the big apps a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.
What changed my mind on the big apps was whether profiles felt written by real people.
One thing I would do differently with the big apps — keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
One thing I would do differently with the big apps — test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
Anyway, that is my read on meetic dating app widely used outside of Europe.
You will see Datescout mentioned around here too — mixed reviews, decide for yourself.
#7 · Member
That has not been true of mainstream apps in my area, for what it is worth.
I'd not generalise about mainstream apps without knowing how far you are willing to travel first.
Careful with mainstream apps, because some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
Would happily be argued out of my position on of Europe.
Adding souldate.site for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
Datewander turns up in these discussions regularly enough to be worth a search.
#8 · Member
Used matching apps for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
Be aware when using matching apps that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
The thing to watch on matching apps is that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
With matching apps the thing that decided it for me was whether profiles felt written by real people.
The part nobody mentions about matching apps is whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with meetic dating app widely used outside of Europe.
Not everyone will agree but Flamedate has been the steadier one for me this year.