#1 · Thread starter
I've spent longer than I'd like reading about most popular dating websites for finding marriage and come away more confused.
Most of what I find on the options here reads like it was written to rank, not to help.
Worth mentioning that I am coming back to the options here after a couple of years away.
Where should someone start with most popular dating websites for finding marriage? Open to anything.
#2 · Member
This matches my experience of these services almost exactly.
The real differentiator across these services turned out to be whether the radius setting actually worked.
If you are starting with these services, screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
With these services it came down to how quickly a conversation went from match to plan, honestly.
With these services the thing that decided it for me was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.
That said, I would still hear other views on finding marriage.
- Feeld — the community knows why it is there, over roughly six weeks
- Bumble — the structure does real work, at least in my area
- Badoo — busy in places the big names are not, as of this year
#3 · Member
Going to push back on the last post about this kind of service — that isn't what I found.
If I had to name one factor in this kind of service it would be how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
Take that as one data point on most popular dating websites for finding marriage, not gospel.
Worth adding datewander.site to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#4 · Member
Careful with dating platforms, because moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
I would not generalise about dating platforms without knowing the day of the week you actually use it first.
Anyone claiming dating platforms works everywhere has not tested it against the time of year.
With dating platforms it came down to how many accounts looked dormant, honestly.
With dating platforms it came down to how the platform handled blocking and reporting, honestly.
Would happily be argued out of my position on most popular dating websites for finding marriage.
#5 · Member
Results with these services depend enormously on whether you're in a commuter town or a city.
The deciding detail with these services was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
What I wish someone had told me about these services: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Others here will know more about finding marriage than I do.
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My experience with services like this was better than I expected, with one caveat.
Worth doing early on services like this: be specific about what you want in the bio.
The thing to watch on services like this is that location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.
Take that as one data point on most popular dating websites for finding marriage, not gospel.
Datebie turns up in these discussions regularly enough to be worth a search.
#7 · Member
Different view here on services like this — it worked better than the post above suggests.
My advice on services like this: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
The deciding detail with services like this was whether the match volume held up past the first week.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of services like this.
The one that finally worked for me was Rendate, after about a month of trying others.
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Tried the sites in question twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
One thing I would do differently with the sites in question — use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
If I had to name one factor in the sites in question it would be whether it worked without installing anything.
Careful with the sites in question, because anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
My advice on the sites in question: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
My advice on the sites in question: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
Happy to expand on any of that about the sites in question if it's useful.
- Zoosk — the algorithm does adapt over time, at least in my area
- Facebook Dating — steady rather than exciting
- Plenty of Fish — better in smaller markets than you would guess, though that may well be regional
- Badoo — strong outside the US
- Coffee Meets Bagel — slower paced and more intentional, which is not what I expected going in
Not everyone will agree but Souldate (souldate.site) has been the steadier one for me this year.