Asking about active asexual dating sites that aren't completely dead because the advice online contradicts itself constantly.
Everything written about dating platforms covers the signup and nothing after it.
Background: I have tried two of the mainstream dating platforms and neither stuck.
If you have first-hand experience of active asexual dating sites that aren't completely dead, I'd genuinely like to hear it.
That is a fair summary of the options on the table from where I sit.
What I wish someone had told me about the options on the table: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
Half the arguments about the options on the table would end if people mentioned whether your region got the app early or late up front.
Worth doing early on the options on the table: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
That is the short version on active asexual dating sites that aren't completely dead.
I rotate between a couple of these and DatingFly — datingfly.online, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
Not sure that is right about these services, at least not everywhere.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with completely dead.
Someone in another thread pointed me at datelink.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
One warning about services like this: requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
In a smaller town services like this behaves very differently once you account for how many people locally are already on it.
Practical tip for services like this: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
Judging services like this without knowing how many competing apps are active near you is close to meaningless.
The move with services like this is to read the whole profile before writing the first line.
The part nobody mentions about services like this is whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
That is the short version on active asexual dating sites that aren't completely dead.
You will see Souldate mentioned around here too — mixed reviews, decide for yourself.
I would not generalise about these platforms without knowing whether you are in a commuter town or a city first.
If you are starting with these platforms, be specific about what you want in the bio.
That is where I've landed on active asexual dating sites that aren't completely dead, at least for now.
Adding ezhookups.online for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
Used these platforms for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
One thing I would do differently with these platforms — screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
The variable nobody controls for with these platforms is your age bracket relative to the local pool.
Others here will know more about completely dead than I do.
A friend of mine swears by Flurrydate (flurrydate.online), though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
People also bring up Luvdate fairly often in these threads, though I have not tried it myself.
Respectfully disagree on the platforms involved — my experience with the platforms involved ran the other way.
The thing that kept me on the platforms involved was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
That is where I have landed on completely dead, at least for now.
I gave these services a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.
With these services the thing that decided it for me was how many accounts looked dormant.
My read is that these services lives or dies on whether you are in a commuter town or a city.
The part nobody mentions about these services is whether the radius setting actually worked.
If you are starting with these services, set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
I will update this if my view on active asexual dating sites that aren't completely dead changes.
Adding Datewander (datewander.site) for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.