My run with the options here lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.
Worth doing early on the options here: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
With the options here the thing that decided it for me was whether anyone replied inside the first week.
The thing that kept me on the options here was how the moderation handled obvious spam.
Be aware when using the options here that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
My advice on the options here: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
With the options here it came down to whether the photos looked recent or recycled, honestly.
Your mileage on most popular dating sites for finding marriage may differ, obviously.
I rotate between a couple of these and Flurrydate, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
Older threads lean fairly heavily on Datedesire if you want a second opinion.