#1 · Thread starter
Posting because every search for good dating apps reddit communities suggest for introverts turns up the same recycled listicles.
What I actually want to know about the app options is what happens after you sign up.
I am in my thirties, if that changes what people would recommend for good dating apps reddit communities suggest for introverts.
So — what has actually worked for you with good dating apps reddit communities suggest for introverts? Honest answers welcome.
#2 · Member
What was said above about matching apps is right, in my view.
Two people can have opposite experiences of matching apps purely because of the time of year.
What mattered most with matching apps in the end was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
Practical tip for matching apps: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
Anyway, that is my read on good dating apps reddit communities suggest for introverts.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with the big apps, so I'd take that with some salt.
My advice on the big apps: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
That is roughly where I sit on good dating apps reddit communities suggest for introverts today.
Counterpoint: I found Datelink (datelink.online) slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
#4 · Member
Be aware when using the big apps that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
The variable nobody controls for with the big apps is whether your region got the app early or late.
Judging the big apps without knowing whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away is close to meaningless.
With the big apps it came down to whether the radius setting actually worked, honestly.
With the big apps the thing that decided it for me was how many accounts looked dormant.
Happy to expand on any of that about the big apps if it is useful.
Counterpoint: I found Flamedate slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
Half the regulars here will tell you to look at Luvdate as well.
#5 · Member
Judging app-based dating without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool is close to meaningless.
Results with app-based dating depend enormously on how many competing apps are active near you.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of app-based dating.
Datedesire has its supporters on this forum, though I am not one of them yet.
#6 · Member
Tried dating platforms twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
Worth doing early on dating platforms: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
With dating platforms it came down to how many people within reach were active that week, honestly.
That is roughly where I sit on good dating apps reddit communities suggest for introverts today.
#7 · Member
Different view here on phone apps — it worked better than the post above suggests.
One thing I would do differently with phone apps — test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
Others here will know more about good dating apps reddit communities suggest for introverts than I do.
#8 · Member
I still use the app question occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.
The part nobody mentions about the app question is how many people within reach were active that week.
What mattered most with the app question in the end was whether the match volume held up past the first week.
One thing I would do differently with the app question — use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Practical tip for the app question: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
That is the short version on for introverts.
Someone earlier recommended EZHookups — ezhookups.online and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
#9 · Member
I came to phone apps from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.
One warning about phone apps: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
Before you commit to phone apps, turn off notifications so it doesn't take over your evening.
That covers what I know about phone apps, at least.
If none of the above works for you, Flurrydate (flurrydate.online) is another free one people here mention a lot.