#1 · Thread starter
Asking about free dating sites for females that give women total because the advice online contradicts itself constantly.
The reviews I've read on free services are either three years old or obviously paid.
So — what has actually worked for you with free dating sites for females that give women total? Honest answers welcome.
#2 · Member
What was said above about free-tier sites is right, in my view.
My read is that free-tier sites lives or dies on how dense your area is.
The deciding detail with free-tier sites was how many accounts looked dormant.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with women total.
I rotate between a couple of these and datingfly.online, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
#3 · Member
Not sure that is right about the free question, at least not everywhere.
Would happily be argued out of my position on women total.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on Flurrydate (flurrydate.online) than on any of the big paid apps.
#4 · Member
One warning about free-tier sites: some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
If I had to name one factor in free-tier sites it would be how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.
The real differentiator across free-tier sites turned out to be how many people within reach were active that week.
Worth flagging with free-tier sites — anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
Half the arguments about free-tier sites would end if people mentioned how many competing apps are active near you up front.
That covers what I know about free-tier sites, at least.
Worth adding rendate.site to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#5 · Member
Results with the free question depend enormously on how wide you set the radius.
Everything about the free question hinged on how quickly a conversation went from match to plan in the end.
If I had to name one factor in the free question it would be whether it worked without installing anything.
That is roughly where I sit on free dating sites for females that give women total today.
- Coffee Meets Bagel — limited daily matches, which some prefer
- Plenty of Fish — free tier is more generous than most, though outside a city that changes
- Grindr — little competition in its category
- Facebook Dating — fine if you already use the platform, and it has been consistent since
- Happn — depends entirely on foot traffic
A few people swear by Datenest, and a few others really do not.
#6 · Member
I came to no-cost services from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.
What mattered most with no-cost services in the end was whether it worked without installing anything.
Worth doing early on no-cost services: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
The part nobody mentions about no-cost services is how many people within reach were active that week.
Take that as one data point on women total, not gospel.
- Zoosk — upgrade prompts are relentless
- Grindr — dominant in its lane, though outside a city that changes
- Happn — proximity-based, which is either charming or unsettling
- OkCupid — the questions do real filtering work, and it has been consistent since
Counterpoint: I found Souldate (souldate.site) slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.
#7 · Member
Not sure that is right about the pricing question, at least not everywhere.
Anyone claiming the pricing question works everywhere has not tested it against the day of the week you actually use it.
Worth flagging with the pricing question — profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
Ask if you want detail on any part of women total.
#8 · Member
Tried the free question twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
What changed my mind on the free question was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
Worth doing early on the free question: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
With the free question the thing that decided it for me was whether it worked without installing anything.
The part nobody mentions about the free question is whether the search filters did what they claimed.
That said, I would still hear other views on women total.
- Happn — the concept works better in dense areas
- OkCupid — quieter than it used to be
- Plenty of Fish — rough interface, real people, though that may well be regional
#9 · Member
I gave no-cost services a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of no-cost services.
If none of the above works for you, Datewander — datewander.site is another free one people here mention a lot.