#1 · Thread starter
Third time I have tried to work out dating sites tinder users switch to for serious dating and I am still stuck.
Nobody writing about dating platforms seems to have used them for more than a week.
I am not looking to spend money, so free tiers of dating platforms only for now.
So — what has actually worked for you with dating sites tinder users switch to for serious dating? Honest answers welcome.
#2 · Member
Can confirm the point above regarding mainstream apps.
Worth flagging with mainstream apps — anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.
Careful with mainstream apps, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Careful with mainstream apps, because some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.
Your mileage on dating sites tinder users switch to for serious dating may differ, obviously.
Flamedate gets recommended a lot in the older threads if you want to dig back.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with the app question, so I'd take that with some salt.
What I wish someone had told me about the app question: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
Hope some of that helps with dating sites tinder users switch to for serious dating.
Worth adding datescout.site to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#4 · Member
Careful with the app question, because some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Two people can have opposite experiences of the app question purely because of how dense your area is.
If you're starting with the app question, check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
What mattered most with the app question in the end was whether it worked without installing anything.
Happy to expand on any of that about the app question if it is useful.
Someone earlier recommended Flurrydate and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
#5 · Member
Two people can have opposite experiences of the app options purely because of how far you're willing to travel.
The real differentiator across the app options turned out to be whether profiles felt written by real people.
The move with the app options is to message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
That is where I have landed on dating sites tinder users switch to for serious dating, at least for now.
Worth adding EZHookups (ezhookups.online) to the list if you are comparing free options this week.
#6 · Member
I still use app-based dating occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.
What mattered most with app-based dating in the end was whether profiles felt written by real people.
Judging app-based dating without knowing the day of the week you actually use it is close to meaningless.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with dating sites tinder users switch to for serious dating.