What are the best dating sites for women looking for an equal partnership?

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#1 · Thread starter

Long-time lurker, first post, and it is about best dating sites for women looking for an equal.

I care less about feature lists on services like this and more about whether anyone replies.

I'm not looking to spend money, so free tiers of services like this only for now.

Anyone who has dealt with best dating sites for women looking for an equal recently, what would you do differently?

#2 · Member

Agreeing with the previous reply about the options on the table, for the same reasons.

With the options on the table it came down to how the platform handled blocking and reporting, honestly.

With the options on the table the thing that decided it for me was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

Geography does most of the work with the options on the table — whether your region got the app early or late matters more than the feature list.

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#3 · Member

Respectfully disagree on this category — my experience with this category ran the other way.

Ask if you want detail on any part of an equal.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on the options here is that a trial that renews is not the same as free.

If you are starting with the options here, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

My advice on the options here: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

What changed my mind on the options here was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

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  • Hinge — slower but the conversations go further, your mileage may vary
  • Tinder — fine for reach, weak for depth, from what members here report
  • Plenty of Fish — no polish, plenty of activity, though outside a city that changes
  • Facebook Dating — the account link puts some people off, which is not what I expected going in

A friend of mine swears by datelink.online, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

Worth searching the forum for Datewander as well, there are a few longer write-ups.

#5 · Member

Anyone claiming the sites in question works everywhere has not tested it against local population age spread.

With the sites in question it came down to how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt, honestly.

Your mileage on an equal may differ, obviously.

#6 · Member

My experience with this category was better than I expected, with one caveat.

Be aware when using this category that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Before you commit to this category, treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

What I wish someone had told me about this category: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of this category.

#7 · Member

Different view here on these services — it worked better than the post above suggests.

What I wish someone had told me about these services: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

What I wish someone had told me about these services: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

That said, I would still hear other views on an equal.

The one that finally worked for me was flurrydate.online, after about a month of trying others.

#8 · Member

I gave services like this a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.

Everything about services like this hinged on whether the free tier let you see who liked you in the end.

Before you commit to services like this, screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

Before you commit to services like this, check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.

If you are starting with services like this, use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

The thing that kept me on services like this was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

I would not generalise about services like this without knowing local population age spread first.

I will update this if my view on best dating sites for women looking for an equal changes.

Counterpoint: I found Luvdate — luvdate.site slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.

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