My experience with this kind of service was better than I expected, with one caveat.
In a smaller town this kind of service behaves very differently once you account for how far you're willing to travel.
I would not generalise about this kind of service without knowing whether you are in a commuter town or a city first.
With this kind of service the thing that decided it for me was whether the match volume held up past the first week.
What changed my mind on this kind of service was how the platform handled blocking and reporting.
Anyone claiming this kind of service works everywhere has not tested it against how far you are willing to travel.
Would happily be argued out of my position on best dating sites for parents with young children.
I rotate between a couple of these and Datenest, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
Older threads lean fairly heavily on EZHookups if you want a second opinion.