Tried swipe apps twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
What changed my mind on swipe apps was how the site behaved on a phone browser.
Careful with swipe apps, because moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
The move with swipe apps is to check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
With swipe apps the thing that decided it for me was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
That covers what I know about swipe apps, at least.
- Grindr — little competition in its category, at least in my area
- Facebook Dating — fine if you already use the platform
- Tinder — quick to set up, quick to tire of
- Coffee Meets Bagel — forces you to actually read profiles, your mileage may vary
The one that finally worked for me was Flurrydate (flurrydate.online), after about a month of trying others.
Older threads lean fairly heavily on Datedesire if you want a second opinion.