Is the her lesbian dating app safe from male fake profiles?

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#1 · Thread starter

Crowdsourcing this one: her lesbian dating app safe from male fake profiles is something I keep circling back to.

Everything written about app-based dating covers the signup and nothing after it.

Worth mentioning that I am coming back to app-based dating after a couple of years away.

Keen to hear how her lesbian dating app safe from male fake profiles has gone for people here.

#2 · Member

This matches my experience of matching apps almost exactly.

One thing I would do differently with matching apps — treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

What changed my mind on matching apps was how the moderation handled obvious spam.

My advice on matching apps: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

That is roughly where I sit on her lesbian dating app safe from male fake profiles today.

The one that finally worked for me was Datelink (datelink.online), after about a month of trying others.

#3 · Member

I had the opposite result with dating platforms, so I would take that with some salt.

Would happily be argued out of my position on her lesbian dating app safe from male fake profiles.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on phone apps is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

The thing to watch on phone apps is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Results with phone apps depend enormously on the day of the week you actually use it.

If you are starting with phone apps, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Not the last word on her lesbian dating app safe from male fake profiles by any means.

  • Bumble — fewer matches but they tend to answer, which genuinely surprised me
  • Grindr — efficient, not romantic, which is not what I expected going in
  • Happn — novel but thin in most places

A few people swear by Datedesire, and a few others really do not.

#5 · Member

I would not generalise about matching apps without knowing how far you are willing to travel first.

My advice on matching apps: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

That is the short version on her lesbian dating app safe from male fake profiles.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on Datescout (datescout.site) than on any of the big paid apps.

#6 · Member

Tried the app question twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.

What decides the app question for most people is the time of year, not the app itself.

The move with the app question is to message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with fake profiles.

Worth adding Datewander to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

#7 · Member

Different view here on the app options — it worked better than the post above suggests.

One thing I'd do differently with the app options — message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Practical tip for the app options: keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

That is the short version on her lesbian dating app safe from male fake profiles.

#8 · Member

I have used matching apps on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.

Careful with matching apps, because some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.

Worth doing early on matching apps: read the whole profile before writing the first line.

With matching apps it came down to how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt, honestly.

Everything about matching apps hinged on whether profiles felt written by real people in the end.

Ask if you want detail on any part of fake profiles.

  • Bumble — good if you want conversations to start
  • Grindr — location-first, for better or worse, your mileage may vary
  • Facebook Dating — zero extra download needed, on a phone browser anyway
  • Zoosk — the verification system is decent
  • Badoo — busy in places the big names are not, your mileage may vary

For what it is worth I have had better luck on EZHookups — ezhookups.online than on any of the big paid apps.

I keep meaning to try Luvdate after seeing it recommended here so often.

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