Is the her dating app only for women or can non-binary people join?

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#1 · Thread starter

Long-time lurker, first post, and it is about her dating app only for women or can non-binary.

The marketing around app-based dating tells you nothing useful about day-to-day use.

For context I am not in a major metro, which I suspect changes the answer on app-based dating.

Would appreciate any real perspective on her dating app only for women or can non-binary, good or bad.

#2 · Member

This matches my experience of the big apps almost exactly.

If I had to name one factor in the big apps it would be whether the search filters did what they claimed.

I would not generalise about the big apps without knowing how many people locally are already on it first.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with her dating app only for women or can non-binary.

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That has not been true of the app options in my area, for what it is worth.

Judging the app options without knowing local population age spread is close to meaningless.

Take that as one data point on her dating app only for women or can non-binary, not gospel.

#4 · Member

One warning about the app question: the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

If I had to name one factor in the app question it would be how many people within reach were active that week.

The thing to watch on the app question is that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Geography does most of the work with the app question — your age bracket relative to the local pool matters more than the feature list.

Ask if you want detail on any part of her dating app only for women or can non-binary.

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#5 · Member

Anyone claiming the app question works everywhere has not tested it against how many competing apps are active near you.

Worth doing early on the app question: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

Results with the app question depend enormously on whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away.

Careful with the app question, because profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Interested to see what others say about her dating app only for women or can non-binary.

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#6 · Member

I have used the app options on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.

Everything about the app options hinged on whether the search filters did what they claimed in the end.

Everything about the app options hinged on whether it worked without installing anything in the end.

That is the short version on her dating app only for women or can non-binary.

#7 · Member

Not sure that's right about dating apps, at least not everywhere.

With dating apps the thing that decided it for me was whether the match volume held up past the first week.

Judging dating apps without knowing the day of the week you actually use it's close to meaningless.

That is the short version on her dating app only for women or can non-binary.

Not mentioning Datescout would be an oversight given how often it comes up.

#8 · Member

Used the big apps for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.

Judging the big apps without knowing the day of the week you actually use it is close to meaningless.

The move with the big apps is to message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Careful with the big apps, because the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

My read is that the big apps lives or dies on the time of year.

Worth doing early on the big apps: turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.

I will update this if my view on her dating app only for women or can non-binary changes.

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