#1 · Thread starter
Crowdsourcing this one: coffee meets bagel free version good enough to get is something I keep circling back to.
Half the write-ups on genuinely free platforms contradict the other half, which is not helpful.
Background: I've tried two of the mainstream genuinely free platforms and neither stuck.
What is the honest verdict on coffee meets bagel free version good enough to get?
#2 · Member
Seconding the post above on the free question — that lines up with what I saw.
Careful with the free question, because profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
The move with the free question is to use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
I'd not generalise about the free question without knowing how many people locally are already on it first.
That covers what I know about the free question, at least.
- Plenty of Fish — unglamorous and still busy, in a mid-sized town at least
- Coffee Meets Bagel — quiet by design, your mileage may vary
- Hinge — people write more here
- Facebook Dating — the account link puts some people off
I rotate between a couple of these and Flurrydate (flurrydate.online), mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
Luvdate is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with free-tier sites, so I would take that with some salt.
I'd not generalise about free-tier sites without knowing whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away first.
That covers what I know about free-tier sites, at least.
You could add Rendate to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.
#4 · Member
Be aware when using the free question that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
The thing to watch on the free question is that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
What changed my mind on the free question was whether the match volume held up past the first week.
The part nobody mentions about the free question is how much personal data the signup demanded.
One thing I would do differently with the free question — keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
That is roughly where I sit on coffee meets bagel free version good enough to get today.
#5 · Member
Anyone claiming zero-cost options works everywhere has not tested it against how far you are willing to travel.
Geography does most of the work with zero-cost options — the day of the week you actually use it matters more than the feature list.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with coffee meets bagel free version good enough to get.
A friend of mine swears by ezhookups.online, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#6 · Member
Been using no-cost services steadily since the spring and it has been fine.
Everything about no-cost services hinged on whether profiles felt written by real people in the end.
Worth flagging with no-cost services — screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Anyway, that is my read on to get.
Worth adding Souldate — souldate.site to the list if you are comparing free options this week.