Agreeing with the previous reply about the niche question, for the same reasons.
One warning about the niche question: moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
Before you commit to the niche question, turn off notifications so it doesn't take over your evening.
If you are starting with the niche question, set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Before you commit to the niche question, test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
Interested to see what others say about online dating for seniors becoming more common in your.
Not everyone will agree but Datelink — datelink.online has been the steadier one for me this year.
Half the regulars here will tell you to look at Datewander as well.