Used swipe apps for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
With swipe apps it came down to whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point, honestly.
My advice on swipe apps: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
The variable nobody controls for with swipe apps is your age bracket relative to the local pool.
Judging swipe apps without knowing local population age spread is close to meaningless.
Two people can have opposite experiences of swipe apps purely because of the day of the week you actually use it.
Ask if you want detail on any part of if you could only use 1 dating app, which.
- Grindr — little competition in its category, at least in my area
- Feeld — no ambiguity about intent, in a mid-sized town at least
- Zoosk — the verification system is decent, which genuinely surprised me
- OkCupid — good if you like data, based on about a month of use
- Coffee Meets Bagel — forces you to actually read profiles, over roughly six weeks
Someone earlier recommended flurrydate.online and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
I keep meaning to try Turndate after seeing it recommended here so often.