I gave the chat question a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.
The thing that kept me on the chat question was whether it worked without installing anything.
Judging the chat question without knowing whether your region got the app early or late is close to meaningless.
With the chat question it came down to how the platform handled blocking and reporting, honestly.
Worth doing early on the chat question: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
My advice on the chat question: read the whole profile before writing the first line.
The real differentiator across the chat question turned out to be how the platform handled blocking and reporting.
Would happily be argued out of my position on how to avoid creeps in an online dating free.
- Happn — the concept works better in dense areas, based on about a month of use
- Facebook Dating — steady rather than exciting
- Grindr — dominant in its lane, at least in my area
Someone in another thread pointed me at EZHookups — ezhookups.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.