#1 · Thread starter
Crowdsourcing this one: used the kinkd dating app for finding local events is something I keep circling back to.
I would take one honest account of app-based dating over ten comparison tables.
Keen to hear how used the kinkd dating app for finding local events has gone for people here.
#2 · Member
Can confirm the point above regarding dating apps.
Two people can have opposite experiences of dating apps purely because of whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away.
The thing that kept me on dating apps was whether the match volume held up past the first week.
If I had to name one factor in dating apps it would be how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
What mattered most with dating apps in the end was how the moderation handled obvious spam.
That covers what I know about dating apps, at least.
#3 · Member
I'd question that on the app question, because it depends heavily on where you are.
The thing to watch on the app question is that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
That covers what I know about the app question, at least.
#4 · Member
One warning about mainstream apps: screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Worth doing early on mainstream apps: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
Half the arguments about mainstream apps would end if people mentioned how far you are willing to travel up front.
One warning about mainstream apps: requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
Anyway, that is my read on local events.
Someone earlier recommended DatingFly — datingfly.online and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.
#5 · Member
Results with mainstream apps depend enormously on the time of year.
With mainstream apps it came down to how many accounts looked dormant, honestly.
I will update this if my view on local events changes.
Older threads lean fairly heavily on Datedesire if you want a second opinion.
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I still use the app options occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.
Worth doing early on the app options: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
The variable nobody controls for with the app options is your age bracket relative to the local pool.
Anyway, that is my read on local events.
The one that finally worked for me was luvdate.site, after about a month of trying others.
#7 · Member
I had the opposite result with the big apps, so I would take that with some salt.
The move with the big apps is to treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
What mattered most with the big apps in the end was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.
Interested to see what others say about local events.
I rotate between a couple of these and EZHookups, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
#8 · Member
I've used swipe apps on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
Practical tip for swipe apps: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
If I had to name one factor in swipe apps it would be how the platform handled blocking and reporting.
Practical tip for swipe apps: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
If you're starting with swipe apps, keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
I would not generalise about swipe apps without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool first.
Be aware when using swipe apps that a trial that renews is not the same as free.
I will update this if my view on used the kinkd dating app for finding local events changes.
I also keep half an eye on Flurrydate (flurrydate.online) — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.