#1 · Thread starter
Hoping someone here has real experience with how to use the bumble dating website on a rather than a marketing page.
Most of what I find on dating platforms reads like it was written to rank, not to help.
Anyone who has dealt with how to use the bumble dating website on a recently, what would you do differently?
#2 · Member
Can confirm the point above regarding app-based dating.
Worth flagging with app-based dating — the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
With app-based dating it came down to whether the radius setting actually worked, honestly.
That is the short version on how to use the bumble dating website on a.
I rotate between a couple of these and Flurrydate (flurrydate.online), mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
#3 · Member
I had the opposite result with the big apps, so I'd take that with some salt.
Happy to be corrected on any of on a.
Someone in another thread pointed me at rendate.site and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
#4 · Member
One warning about the app options: moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
What I wish someone had told me about the app options: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
What decides the app options for most people is how many competing apps are active near you, not the app itself.
Be aware when using the app options that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
One thing I'd do differently with the app options — treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
Worth flagging with the app options — some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Take that as one data point on on a, not gospel.
- Plenty of Fish — no polish, plenty of activity, your mileage may vary
- Hinge — better profiles, smaller pool
- Zoosk — the verification system is decent, your mileage may vary
If none of the above works for you, datelink.online is another free one people here mention a lot.
#5 · Member
In a smaller town phone apps behaves very differently once you account for the day of the week you actually use it.
What I wish someone had told me about phone apps: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
One warning about phone apps: moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
The move with phone apps is to set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of phone apps.
I keep meaning to try Flamedate after seeing it recommended here so often.
#6 · Member
I have used mainstream apps on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
What I wish someone had told me about mainstream apps: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Be aware when using mainstream apps that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
With mainstream apps the thing that decided it for me was whether the radius setting actually worked.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of mainstream apps.
For what it is worth I have had better luck on EZHookups than on any of the big paid apps.
You will see Datedesire mentioned around here too — mixed reviews, decide for yourself.