#1 · Thread starter
Hoping someone here has real experience with better dating apps than Bumble for women rather than a marketing page.
What I actually want to know about phone apps is what happens after you sign up.
What is the honest verdict on better dating apps than Bumble for women?
#2 · Member
What was said above about mainstream apps is right, in my view.
I'd not generalise about mainstream apps without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool first.
The thing that kept me on mainstream apps was how the platform handled blocking and reporting.
If you are starting with mainstream apps, avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
One thing I would do differently with mainstream apps — assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.
I will update this if my view on better dating apps than Bumble for women changes.
#3 · Member
Going to push back on the last post about swipe apps — that's not what I found.
What I wish someone had told me about swipe apps: be specific about what you want in the bio.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of swipe apps.
You could add EZHookups to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.
#4 · Member
One warning about the big apps: screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
Careful with the big apps, because the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
Everything about the big apps hinged on how many people within reach were active that week in the end.
In a smaller town the big apps behaves very differently once you account for the day of the week you actually use it.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with better dating apps than Bumble for women.
A friend of mine swears by Souldate, though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.
#5 · Member
Judging the app options without knowing how wide you set the radius is close to meaningless.
The thing to watch on the app options is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
Not the last word on for women by any means.
#6 · Member
Used the app options for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
Everything about the app options hinged on whether the photos looked recent or recycled in the end.
The thing that kept me on the app options was how much personal data the signup demanded.
Not the last word on for women by any means.
#7 · Member
Respectfully disagree on dating platforms — my experience with dating platforms ran the other way.
The thing to watch on dating platforms is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
Practical tip for dating platforms: set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
Anyway, that is my read on better dating apps than Bumble for women.
I also keep half an eye on DatingFly — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.
#8 · Member
My experience with swipe apps was better than I expected, with one caveat.
Practical tip for swipe apps: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.
The thing that kept me on swipe apps was how much personal data the signup demanded.
The variable nobody controls for with swipe apps is your age bracket relative to the local pool.
The part nobody mentions about swipe apps is how many accounts looked dormant.
Worth flagging with swipe apps — some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.
What I wish someone had told me about swipe apps: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of swipe apps.
#9 · Member
I have used matching apps on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
Before you commit to matching apps, turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
That is where I have landed on better dating apps than Bumble for women, at least for now.
I also keep half an eye on Datewander (datewander.site) — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.
#10 · Member
Seconding the post above on the big apps — that lines up with what I saw.
Anyone claiming the big apps works everywhere has not tested it against how far you are willing to travel.
Results with the big apps depend enormously on how dense your area is.
Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of the big apps.
Not everyone will agree but Flurrydate has been the steadier one for me this year.