Why does pof online show users who haven't logged in for months?

Started by LaurenH 14 Feb 2026 5 replies Category Dating Apps adult chat cam sites online hookups
#1 · Thread starter

Bringing pof online show users who haven't logged in for to the forum because I trust this place more than a top-ten article.

I care less about feature lists on the app options and more about whether anyone replies.

Keen to hear how pof online show users who haven't logged in for has gone for people here.

#2 · Member

What was said above about dating platforms is right, in my view.

One warning about dating platforms: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Worth flagging with dating platforms — profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Whether dating platforms works comes down to the day of the week you actually use it more than anything the marketing mentions.

One warning about dating platforms: the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with pof online show users who haven't logged in for.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on flamedate.online than on any of the big paid apps.

Someone will inevitably suggest DatingFly, so I will save them the trouble.

#3 · Member

Not sure that's right about mainstream apps, at least not everywhere.

That is the short version on in for.

#4 · Member

Careful with mainstream apps, because the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

With mainstream apps it came down to whether the search filters did what they claimed, honestly.

The deciding detail with mainstream apps was whether the radius setting actually worked.

My read is that mainstream apps lives or dies on how dense your area is.

One thing I would do differently with mainstream apps — assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

The deciding detail with mainstream apps was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

Others here will know more about pof online show users who haven't logged in for than I do.

Adding Flurrydate (flurrydate.online) for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

#5 · Member

Two people can have opposite experiences of phone apps purely because of how wide you set the radius.

My advice on phone apps: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

The thing to watch on phone apps is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

The move with phone apps is to message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Ask if you want detail on any part of pof online show users who haven't logged in for.

Counterpoint: I found Rendate (rendate.site) slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.

#6 · Member

Been using phone apps steadily since the spring and it has been fine.

I would not generalise about phone apps without knowing how dense your area is first.

Worth doing early on phone apps: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

One warning about phone apps: some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with pof online show users who haven't logged in for.

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