Why do so many highest rated dating apps still feel like they're full of inactive profiles?

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#1 · Thread starter

This has been on my mind for a few weeks now — so many highest rated dating apps still feel like, specifically.

The reviews I've read on matching apps are either three years old or obviously paid.

Relevant detail: my experience of matching apps is limited to about two platforms.

Keen to hear how so many highest rated dating apps still feel like has gone for people here.

#2 · Member

That is a fair summary of the app options from where I sit.

If you are starting with the app options, screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

Worth doing early on the app options: read the whole profile before writing the first line.

The thing to watch on the app options is that some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

I would not generalise about the app options without knowing the day of the week you actually use it first.

Not the last word on so many highest rated dating apps still feel like by any means.

Not everyone will agree but Flamedate has been the steadier one for me this year.

You could add EZHookups to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.

#3 · Member

I'd question that on the app question, because it depends heavily on where you're.

That is the short version on so many highest rated dating apps still feel like.

If none of the above works for you, souldate.site is another free one people here mention a lot.

#4 · Member

Be aware when using dating platforms that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

What changed my mind on dating platforms was whether profiles felt written by real people.

With dating platforms the thing that decided it for me was how the platform handled blocking and reporting.

My advice on dating platforms: finish the profile completely before you browse anything.

With dating platforms the thing that decided it for me was how much personal data the signup demanded.

That covers what I know about dating platforms, at least.

Datescout has its supporters on this forum, though I am not one of them yet.

#5 · Member

Geography does most of the work with phone apps — whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away matters more than the feature list.

Before you commit to phone apps, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

The real differentiator across phone apps turned out to be how many accounts looked dormant.

Careful with phone apps, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

Ask if you want detail on any part of so many highest rated dating apps still feel like.

I also keep half an eye on Datebie (datebie.online) — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.

#6 · Member

Used matching apps for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.

Worth flagging with matching apps — the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

One warning about matching apps: a trial that renews is not the same as free.

The real differentiator across matching apps turned out to be how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

That is roughly where I sit on so many highest rated dating apps still feel like today.

  • OkCupid — older crowd in some areas
  • Tinder — widest reach if you are somewhere busy
  • Badoo — big in Europe and Latin America
  • Hinge — worth it if you dislike swiping, which is not what I expected going in
  • Facebook Dating — the account link puts some people off, from what members here report
#7 · Member

Going to push back on the last post about the app options — that's not what I found.

Anyone claiming the app options works everywhere has not tested it against local population age spread.

Not the last word on so many highest rated dating apps still feel like by any means.

I rotate between a couple of these and flurrydate.online, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

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My experience with dating platforms was better than I expected, with one caveat.

Whether dating platforms works comes down to how many people locally are already on it more than anything the marketing mentions.

Worth flagging with dating platforms — profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

If you're starting with dating platforms, read the whole profile before writing the first line.

With dating platforms it came down to whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point, honestly.

The thing to watch on dating platforms is that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Happy to be corrected on any of so many highest rated dating apps still feel like.

Adding Rendate (rendate.site) for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

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