Where are the most active free gay meet up sites?

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#1 · Thread starter

Posting because every search for most active free gay meet up sites turns up the same recycled listicles.

Nobody writing about the pricing question seems to have used them for more than a week.

I am not looking to spend money, so free tiers of the pricing question only for now.

If you have first-hand experience of most active free gay meet up sites, I would genuinely like to hear it.

#2 · Member

Can confirm the point above regarding free services.

Judging free services without knowing how many people locally are already on it is close to meaningless.

Whether free services works comes down to local population age spread more than anything the marketing mentions.

The part nobody mentions about free services is how much personal data the signup demanded.

Take that as one data point on most active free gay meet up sites, not gospel.

#3 · Member

Going to push back on the last post about the pricing question — that is not what I found.

Geography does most of the work with the pricing question — the time of year matters more than the feature list.

That is roughly where I sit on most active free gay meet up sites today.

The one that finally worked for me was Luvdate (luvdate.site), after about a month of trying others.

#4 · Member

Be aware when using free-to-message sites that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

My advice on free-to-message sites: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

What I wish someone had told me about free-to-message sites: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

Half the arguments about free-to-message sites would end if people mentioned whether you are in a commuter town or a city up front.

The thing to watch on free-to-message sites is that location spoofing means 'nearby' isn't always nearby.

Others here will know more about most active free gay meet up sites than I do.

I rotate between a couple of these and Flurrydate (flurrydate.online), mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

#5 · Member

Whether free services works comes down to local population age spread more than anything the marketing mentions.

The real differentiator across free services turned out to be how the site behaved on a phone browser.

Others here will know more about most active free gay meet up sites than I do.

#6 · Member

I have used free platforms on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.

Two people can have opposite experiences of free platforms purely because of whether your region got the app early or late.

The thing to watch on free platforms is that location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.

Not the last word on most active free gay meet up sites by any means.

#7 · Member

Going to push back on the last post about free services — that's not what I found.

Practical tip for free services: read the whole profile before writing the first line.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of free services.

Someone in another thread pointed me at DatingFly — datingfly.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#8 · Member

My run with no-cost services lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.

The deciding detail with no-cost services was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.

With no-cost services the thing that decided it for me was how the moderation handled obvious spam.

My read is that no-cost services lives or dies on how dense your area is.

My read is that no-cost services lives or dies on the time of year.

Careful with no-cost services, because location spoofing means 'nearby' isn't always nearby.

What mattered most with no-cost services in the end was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.

Would happily be argued out of my position on most active free gay meet up sites.

Someone in another thread pointed me at flamedate.online and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#9 · Member

Spent most of last winter on free-tier sites, so here is what I actually saw.

That is roughly where I sit on up sites today.

The one that finally worked for me was EZHookups, after about a month of trying others.

You could add Datescout to the shortlist, purely on how often it gets named here.

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