Careful with the pricing question, because moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.
Before you commit to the pricing question, set your radius tight first and widen it only if it goes quiet.
One thing I would do differently with the pricing question — keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
Everything about the pricing question hinged on how easy it was to delete the account afterwards in the end.
The thing to watch on the pricing question is that the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
One warning about the pricing question: the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.
I will update this if my view on best free sites to meet local singles without paying changes.
I also keep half an eye on Rendate — different crowd, same free-messaging idea.
People also bring up Flurrydate fairly often in these threads, though I have not tried it myself.