My run with the app question lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.
One thing I'd do differently with the app question — keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
What mattered most with the app question in the end was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
If I had to name one factor in the app question it would be whether the match volume held up past the first week.
If you're starting with the app question, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
What changed my mind on the app question was how much personal data the signup demanded.
With the app question the thing that decided it for me was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
That covers what I know about the app question, at least.
- OkCupid — quieter than it used to be, from what members here report
- Badoo — much larger abroad than at home, though that may well be regional
- Plenty of Fish — free tier is more generous than most, based on about a month of use
- Feeld — the community knows why it is there, in a mid-sized town at least
- Tinder — strong in cities, thin outside them, though I only tried the free tier
Datewander comes up in most threads like this one, for whatever that is worth.