The thing to watch on cam and video chat services is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.
The thing that kept me on cam and video chat services was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
Before you commit to cam and video chat services, treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.
Practical tip for cam and video chat services: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.
The variable nobody controls for with cam and video chat services is how dense your area is.
Practical tip for cam and video chat services: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.
Not the last word on gay cam by any means.
- Tinder — widest reach if you are somewhere busy
- Hinge — prompts give you something to answer, though outside a city that changes
- Plenty of Fish — worth a look outside big cities, though that may well be regional
- Happn — quiet outside metros, as of this year
- Feeld — refreshingly direct, your mileage may vary
Someone in another thread pointed me at rendate.site and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.
You will see Flamedate mentioned around here too — mixed reviews, decide for yourself.