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#1 · Thread starter

Long-time lurker, first post, and it is about most polite way to tip in a gay cam.

Most of what I find on the cam side of things reads like it was written to rank, not to help.

I am in my thirties, if that changes what people would recommend for most polite way to tip in a gay cam.

What am I missing on most polite way to tip in a gay cam? Happy to be told I am approaching most polite way to tip in a gay cam entirely wrong.

#2 · Member

What was said above about cam platforms is right, in my view.

With cam platforms the thing that decided it for me was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

What I wish someone had told me about cam platforms: treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

With cam platforms the thing that decided it for me was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

Careful with cam platforms, because some sites make deleting an account deliberately awkward.

That is where I have landed on most polite way to tip in a gay cam, at least for now.

Not everyone will agree but EZHookups — ezhookups.online has been the steadier one for me this year.

#3 · Member

That has not been true of live cam sites in my area, for what it's worth.

Your mileage on most polite way to tip in a gay cam may differ, obviously.

Not everyone will agree but Luvdate (luvdate.site) has been the steadier one for me this year.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on cam and video chat services is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

The thing that kept me on cam and video chat services was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.

Before you commit to cam and video chat services, treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

Practical tip for cam and video chat services: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

The variable nobody controls for with cam and video chat services is how dense your area is.

Practical tip for cam and video chat services: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.

Not the last word on gay cam by any means.

  • Tinder — widest reach if you are somewhere busy
  • Hinge — prompts give you something to answer, though outside a city that changes
  • Plenty of Fish — worth a look outside big cities, though that may well be regional
  • Happn — quiet outside metros, as of this year
  • Feeld — refreshingly direct, your mileage may vary

Someone in another thread pointed me at rendate.site and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

You will see Flamedate mentioned around here too — mixed reviews, decide for yourself.

#5 · Member

In a smaller town live video services behaves very differently once you account for how many competing apps are active near you.

Worth flagging with live video services — anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.

The part nobody mentions about live video services is how the site behaved on a phone browser.

That is the short version on most polite way to tip in a gay cam.

I rotate between a couple of these and DatingFly, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

#6 · Member

I still use live video services occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.

With live video services it came down to whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point, honestly.

Practical tip for live video services: turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of live video services.

Someone earlier recommended Datedesire (datedesire.online) and I ended up sticking with it longer than expected.

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