What is the best platform for safe online dating without revealing your real name?

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#1 · Thread starter

Genuine question about best platform for safe online dating without revealing your — I would rather hear from people than from a review site.

What I actually want to know about the safety side is what happens after you sign up.

I am not looking to spend money, so free tiers of the safety side only for now.

Where should someone start with best platform for safe online dating without revealing your? Open to anything.

#2 · Member

What was said above about platform safety is right, in my view.

The thing to watch on platform safety is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

With platform safety the thing that decided it for me was how the moderation handled obvious spam.

Everything about platform safety hinged on whether the free tier let you see who liked you in the end.

Worth doing early on platform safety: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

Anyway, that is my read on best platform for safe online dating without revealing your.

#3 · Member

Not sure that is right about due diligence here, at least not everywhere.

Worth doing early on due diligence here: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

Take that as one data point on best platform for safe online dating without revealing your, not gospel.

I keep meaning to try Souldate after seeing it recommended here so often.

#4 · Member

Careful with the trust question, because some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.

One thing I would do differently with the trust question — treat any request for card details as a reason to leave.

The part nobody mentions about the trust question is how the platform handled blocking and reporting.

Be aware when using the trust question that screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

Interested to see what others say about best platform for safe online dating without revealing your.

Not everyone will agree but EZHookups has been the steadier one for me this year.

#5 · Member

My read is that due diligence here lives or dies on the day of the week you actually use it.

The move with due diligence here is to assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

Your mileage on best platform for safe online dating without revealing your may differ, obviously.

Not everyone will agree but flurrydate.online has been the steadier one for me this year.

#6 · Member

I came to the safety side from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.

With the safety side it came down to how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt, honestly.

My read is that the safety side lives or dies on whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away.

Everything about the safety side hinged on whether it worked without installing anything in the end.

Happy to be corrected on any of revealing your.

Datenest comes up in most threads like this one, for whatever that is worth.

#7 · Member

I would question that on platform trustworthiness, because it depends heavily on where you're.

The variable nobody controls for with platform trustworthiness is how many competing apps are active near you.

That covers what I know about platform trustworthiness, at least.

#8 · Member

I gave due diligence here a proper go for a couple of months before giving up.

One thing I would do differently with due diligence here — be specific about what you want in the bio.

What mattered most with due diligence here in the end was how much personal data the signup demanded.

The thing to watch on due diligence here is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

One thing I would do differently with due diligence here — give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

I would not generalise about due diligence here without knowing how far you are willing to travel first.

One warning about due diligence here: moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Interested to see what others say about best platform for safe online dating without revealing your.

  • OkCupid — dated interface, decent people
  • Hinge — more relationship-leaning but has casual users too
  • Badoo — big in Europe and Latin America
  • Facebook Dating — the account link puts some people off, on a phone browser anyway
  • Grindr — little competition in its category, which is not what I expected going in

Adding Datebie (datebie.online) for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.

#9 · Member

I still use platform trustworthiness occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.

That said, I'd still hear other views on best platform for safe online dating without revealing your.

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