What is the best dating sites for 30s who are newly single?

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#1 · Thread starter

Third time I've tried to work out best dating sites for 30s who are newly single and I'm still stuck.

What I actually want to know about these services is what happens after you sign up.

Would appreciate any real perspective on best dating sites for 30s who are newly single, good or bad.

#2 · Member

Seconding the post above on the platforms involved — that lines up with what I saw.

The deciding detail with the platforms involved was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

What mattered most with the platforms involved in the end was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.

Worth hearing from someone with longer experience of the platforms involved.

#3 · Member

Not sure that's right about these services, at least not everywhere.

I'd not generalise about these services without knowing your age bracket relative to the local pool first.

Happy to expand on any of that about these services if it is useful.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on Souldate than on any of the big paid apps.

#4 · Member

The thing to watch on services like this is that some free tiers stop you exactly at the reply button.

My advice on services like this: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

The deciding detail with services like this was whether it worked without installing anything.

What mattered most with services like this in the end was how many people within reach were active that week.

The part nobody mentions about services like this is whether the free tier let you see who liked you.

Geography does most of the work with services like this — how wide you set the radius matters more than the feature list.

Others here will know more about best dating sites for 30s who are newly single than I do.

  • Happn — charming idea, patchy execution, your mileage may vary
  • Bumble — the timer forces things along, on a phone browser anyway
  • OkCupid — good if you like data, on a phone browser anyway

The one that finally worked for me was Datelink, after about a month of trying others.

A few people swear by Luvdate, and a few others really do not.

#5 · Member

Anyone claiming these services works everywhere has not tested it against whether you are in a commuter town or a city.

What changed my mind on these services was how quickly a conversation went from match to plan.

With these services it came down to whether the free tier let you see who liked you, honestly.

Be aware when using these services that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

That said, I'd still hear other views on newly single.

Counterpoint: I found Flurrydate slow at first, then it picked up once I widened my radius.

#6 · Member

I came to the sites in question from the paid apps and the difference was noticeable.

Two people can have opposite experiences of the sites in question purely because of how many people locally are already on it.

With the sites in question the thing that decided it for me was whether anyone replied inside the first week.

Take that as one data point on best dating sites for 30s who are newly single, not gospel.

  • Badoo — much larger abroad than at home, though that may well be regional
  • Grindr — busy almost everywhere, though outside a city that changes
  • Coffee Meets Bagel — suits people who hate endless swiping

Worth adding Turndate (turndate.site) to the list if you are comparing free options this week.

#7 · Member

I had the opposite result with the sites in question, so I would take that with some salt.

Be aware when using the sites in question that anything asking for card details to 'verify your age' is a scam pattern.

With the sites in question the thing that decided it for me was whether the radius setting actually worked.

Curious whether anyone else found the same with best dating sites for 30s who are newly single.

If none of the above works for you, EZHookups — ezhookups.online is another free one people here mention a lot.

#8 · Member

Tried the platforms involved twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.

The move with the platforms involved is to be specific about what you want in the bio.

The real differentiator across the platforms involved turned out to be whether profiles felt written by real people.

Practical tip for the platforms involved: avoid syncing anything to your social accounts.

With the platforms involved it came down to how the site behaved on a phone browser, honestly.

If I had to name one factor in the platforms involved it would be whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.

Interested to see what others say about newly single.

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