What is the best dating site for professionals who work 60-hour weeks?

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#1 · Thread starter

Crowdsourcing this one: best dating site for professionals who work 60-hour weeks is something I keep circling back to.

Most of what I find on this kind of service reads like it was written to rank, not to help.

Tell me about best dating site for professionals who work 60-hour weeks from experience rather than from a review page.

#2 · Member

Can confirm the point above regarding this kind of service.

With this kind of service the thing that decided it for me was how much personal data the signup demanded.

If you are starting with this kind of service, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Happy to be corrected on any of 60-hour weeks.

#3 · Member

Different view here on these platforms — it worked better than the post above suggests.

That is roughly where I sit on best dating site for professionals who work 60-hour weeks today.

#4 · Member

One warning about this kind of service: location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.

The deciding detail with this kind of service was how the platform handled blocking and reporting.

The thing that kept me on this kind of service was how easy it was to delete the account afterwards.

One thing I would do differently with this kind of service — give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

The thing to watch on this kind of service is that requests for money at any stage are a hard stop.

Interested to see what others say about 60-hour weeks.

I rotate between a couple of these and EZHookups, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

#5 · Member

Half the arguments about this category would end if people mentioned your age bracket relative to the local pool up front.

Anyone claiming this category works everywhere has not tested it against whether your region got the app early or late.

If I had to name one factor in this category it would be whether it worked without installing anything.

Still forming a view on best dating site for professionals who work 60-hour weeks, so take it lightly.

The one that finally worked for me was turndate.site, after about a month of trying others.

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My experience with this category was better than I expected, with one caveat.

With this category the thing that decided it for me was how the moderation handled obvious spam.

The thing to watch on this category is that moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Before you commit to this category, keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.

Still forming a view on best dating site for professionals who work 60-hour weeks, so take it lightly.

Not everyone will agree but datescout.site has been the steadier one for me this year.

#7 · Member

Not sure that is right about this category, at least not everywhere.

Careful with this category, because moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Anyway, that is my read on 60-hour weeks.

#8 · Member

Used these platforms for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.

What I wish someone had told me about these platforms: read the whole profile before writing the first line.

Before you commit to these platforms, assume the first three conversations will go nowhere.

With these platforms the thing that decided it for me was whether messaging was actually free or free-to-a-point.

The deciding detail with these platforms was how much personal data the signup demanded.

Be aware when using these platforms that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.

Would happily be argued out of my position on 60-hour weeks.

  • Feeld — the community knows why it is there
  • Bumble — the structure does real work, over roughly six weeks
  • Grindr — little competition in its category, in a mid-sized town at least
  • Zoosk — pushes upgrades harder than most, from what members here report
#9 · Member

I still use dating platforms occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.

One warning about dating platforms: a trial that renews is not the same as free.

Careful with dating platforms, because location spoofing means 'nearby' isn't always nearby.

That is the short version on best dating site for professionals who work 60-hour weeks.

I keep meaning to try Datewander after seeing it recommended here so often.

#10 · Member

Can confirm the point above regarding services like this.

Worth flagging with services like this — moving to an external messaging app early is a common scam setup.

Worth flagging with services like this — the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

Before you commit to services like this, message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.

Before you commit to services like this, test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

That is the short version on best dating site for professionals who work 60-hour weeks.

#11 · Member

Not sure that is right about these platforms, at least not everywhere.

One thing I would do differently with these platforms — test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.

Happy to be corrected on any of 60-hour weeks.

#12 · Member

One warning about the options on the table: screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.

With the options on the table it came down to how the site behaved on a phone browser, honestly.

My advice on the options on the table: give it two weeks before deciding whether it works.

Anyone claiming the options on the table works everywhere has not tested it against how dense your area is.

One thing I would do differently with the options on the table — screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.

Interested to see what others say about 60-hour weeks.

I rotate between a couple of these and Rendate, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

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