What is the best dating app for black people right now?

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#1 · Thread starter

Long-time lurker, first post, and it is about best dating app for black people right now.

The marketing around matching apps tells you nothing useful about day-to-day use.

For what it is worth I am on mobile almost exclusively, if that matters for matching apps.

Any thoughts on best dating app for black people right now would help me stop going in circles.

#2 · Member

Seconding the post above on dating apps — that lines up with what I saw.

Practical tip for dating apps: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

One warning about dating apps: the quieter platforms can look active because of recycled profiles.

Still forming a view on right now, so take it lightly.

Worth searching the forum for Datedesire as well, there are a few longer write-ups.

#3 · Member

Not sure that's right about mainstream apps, at least not everywhere.

Others here will know more about right now than I do.

A friend of mine swears by EZHookups (ezhookups.online), though your mileage will depend entirely on your area.

#4 · Member

Be aware when using app-based dating that location spoofing means 'nearby' is not always nearby.

The deciding detail with app-based dating was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.

The real differentiator across app-based dating turned out to be how the platform handled blocking and reporting.

My advice on app-based dating: keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.

What mattered most with app-based dating in the end was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.

Practical tip for app-based dating: use separate photos from the ones on your other accounts.

That covers what I know about app-based dating, at least.

#5 · Member

The variable nobody controls for with dating apps is whether you are in a commuter town or a city.

Worth doing early on dating apps: be specific about what you want in the bio.

In a smaller town dating apps behaves very differently once you account for the day of the week you actually use it.

I will update this if my view on right now changes.

Someone in another thread pointed me at datenest.site and it is worth a look if you are outside a big metro.

#6 · Member

I still use the app question occasionally, mostly out of habit at this point.

What mattered most with the app question in the end was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.

My advice on the app question: check what the free tier actually includes before investing time.

Anyway, that is my read on best dating app for black people right now.

  • Plenty of Fish — the free messaging is the draw, at least in my area
  • Feeld — narrow but genuinely active
  • Badoo — big in Europe and Latin America
  • Tinder — quick to set up, quick to tire of, in a mid-sized town at least
#7 · Member

That has not been true of phone apps in my area, for what it is worth.

What changed my mind on phone apps was how much personal data the signup demanded.

Happy to expand on any of that about phone apps if it's useful.

For what it is worth I have had better luck on Rendate (rendate.site) than on any of the big paid apps.

#8 · Member

My experience with swipe apps was better than I expected, with one caveat.

One thing I would do differently with swipe apps — be specific about what you want in the bio.

Geography does most of the work with swipe apps — local population age spread matters more than the feature list.

What changed my mind on swipe apps was whether the match volume held up past the first week.

The real differentiator across swipe apps turned out to be how much personal data the signup demanded.

Everything about swipe apps hinged on how much personal data the signup demanded in the end.

The real differentiator across swipe apps turned out to be how many accounts looked dormant.

I will update this if my view on best dating app for black people right now changes.

  • Zoosk — reasonable match quality
  • Bumble — useful if you want some initial filtering, though I only tried the free tier
  • Facebook Dating — ties to a real account, for better or worse

I rotate between a couple of these and datelink.online, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.

DatingFly has its supporters on this forum, though I am not one of them yet.

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