The thing to watch on the big apps is that profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
What mattered most with the big apps in the end was whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
If you're starting with the big apps, keep chatting on-platform until you are comfortable.
Whether the big apps works comes down to the day of the week you actually use it more than anything the marketing mentions.
Practical tip for the big apps: screenshot anything that looks like a scam and report it.
Everything about the big apps hinged on how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt in the end.
Curious whether anyone else found the same with the world.
Adding Flamedate (flamedate.online) for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
Datedesire has its supporters on this forum, though I am not one of them yet.