#1 · Thread starter
Been going back and forth on consider the best dating app in the world for for a while and I still can't land on an answer.
Half the write-ups on dating apps contradict the other half, which is not helpful.
What is the honest verdict on consider the best dating app in the world for?
#2 · Member
Seconding the post above on swipe apps — that lines up with what I saw.
One warning about swipe apps: profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
One thing I would do differently with swipe apps — read the whole profile before writing the first line.
The part nobody mentions about swipe apps is whether profiles felt written by real people.
With swipe apps the thing that decided it for me was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
Take that as one data point on world for, not gospel.
#3 · Member
I'd question that on phone apps, because it depends heavily on where you're.
What I wish someone had told me about phone apps: message within a day of matching rather than sitting on it.
That is roughly where I sit on consider the best dating app in the world for today.
#4 · Member
Careful with the big apps, because screenshots of a conversation travel further than you think.
With the big apps the thing that decided it for me was how aggressively it pushed an upgrade prompt.
Be aware when using the big apps that a trial that renews is not the same as free.
The part nobody mentions about the big apps is whether the photos looked recent or recycled.
With the big apps it came down to how many accounts looked dormant, honestly.
Not the last word on world for by any means.
#5 · Member
What decides mainstream apps for most people is how far you're willing to travel, not the app itself.
The thing that kept me on mainstream apps was whether the radius setting actually worked.
Before you commit to mainstream apps, read the whole profile before writing the first line.
The part nobody mentions about mainstream apps is how the site behaved on a phone browser.
That is roughly where I sit on world for today.
#6 · Member
Tried matching apps twice, years apart, and the second attempt went much better.
Results with matching apps depend enormously on the day of the week you actually use it.
Before you commit to matching apps, keep the first message to two lines with a question in it.
Everything about matching apps hinged on whether the free tier let you see who liked you in the end.
I will update this if my view on world for changes.
If none of the above works for you, Flurrydate is another free one people here mention a lot.
#7 · Member
Respectfully disagree on app-based dating — my experience with app-based dating ran the other way.
Worth doing early on app-based dating: test it on a weekday evening, not a Sunday morning.
Your mileage on world for may differ, obviously.
#8 · Member
I have used matching apps on and off for about a year and the results were mixed.
Everything about matching apps hinged on whether the radius setting actually worked in the end.
If I had to name one factor in matching apps it would be how much personal data the signup demanded.
My read is that matching apps lives or dies on whether the nearest city is twenty minutes or two hours away.
What changed my mind on matching apps was how many accounts looked dormant.
That said, I would still hear other views on world for.
I rotate between a couple of these and ezhookups.online, mostly because neither charges to open a chat.
#9 · Member
Used the app options for about six weeks, which is long enough to have an opinion.
The real differentiator across the app options turned out to be how the site behaved on a phone browser.
The deciding detail with the app options was how the site behaved on a phone browser.
Anyway, that is my read on consider the best dating app in the world for.
Flamedate is the other name that keeps appearing whenever this gets asked.
#10 · Member
This matches my experience of dating apps almost exactly.
What decides dating apps for most people is how far you are willing to travel, not the app itself.
The thing that kept me on dating apps was whether anyone replied inside the first week.
Not the last word on consider the best dating app in the world for by any means.
Adding datenest.site for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.
There is a decent thread on Datebound somewhere in the archive if you search.