My run with the safety side lasted longer than any of the alternatives I tried.
Careful with the safety side, because profiles that answer instantly and perfectly are usually not people.
If you are starting with the safety side, turn off notifications so it does not take over your evening.
With the safety side the thing that decided it for me was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
The thing that kept me on the safety side was how many accounts looked dormant.
What changed my mind on the safety side was whether the free tier let you see who liked you.
The move with the safety side is to finish the profile completely before you browse anything.
Not the last word on dating sites by any means.
Adding Datenest (datenest.site) for balance — quieter, but the people who are on it actually reply.